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Beware The Tractor Beam

When you make the transition from one job to another, there will inevitably be a pull to go back to your old job -- especially when the job that you went to is not all that it's cracked up to be. 

I call this the Previous Employer Tractor Beam. 

Every new job as an adjustment period. 

Enter the right environment and your adjustment happens quickly -- because you are ignited, excited, and happy. 

Enter the wrong environment and your adjustment is slow and painful-- like sinking in quicksand.

9 out of 10 of us probably end up in the wrong environment. (I have no data to back this up except for how many people are not engaged in their work.) 

All of a sudden, every reason that you had for leaving your previous job evaporates and all you remember are the great things about the job. 

The pull to go back to your old job will be great -- especially in the professional services arena. It's comfortable and you know the rules of the game. Many people have the need for security, and going back to what you know provides that level of security. 

Here's the thing. You are not growing if you are comfortable. It's when you are uncomfortable that true growth occurs. 

Instead of going back to what's safe, blaze your own trail. 

Can the tractor beam be broken? Yes. Absolutely. 

You just need the self-discipline and willpower to break it. 


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