What Do You Want To Do?

A question that I get asked a lot is, "What do you want to do?"

And every time I answer it, I have to stall and say, "Well, that's a very good question."

When you are a generalist and are used to providing answers that you think the other person wants to hear, it's an impossible question to answer authentically. After all, a generalist has made a career by figuring out how to do anything.

I mean, if you are asking me what I really want to do- it's win the lottery, travel the world, and have experiences that I can talk about that are once in a lifetime. Oh, and I'd like to finish my DJ lessons too.

And then there's reality.

How do you find the place where work doesn't feel like work?

Where is that place where you know you belong and aren't wasting valuable energy trying to fit in?

The self-help answer is that it's all a state of mind.

My answer is that the self-help answer is not helpful at all.

Life is too short to accept doing something that you don't want to do. The fun is probably searching for that thing you love-- at least that's what everyone tells me.

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