... Then They Laugh At You...

Attend a Tony Robbins seminar.

Your friends think you attended a get rich quick conference.

Read a bunch of self-help books and business books.

Your colleagues and clients think you have too much time on your hands and that it's all idealistic, not practical.

Listen to podcasts.

What are podcasts?? And why??

If you don't have advisers and mentors in your life, it's probably easier to laugh at the people getting help then to actually get the help yourself.

"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win." - Mahatma Gandhi

I used to be the one laughing at the infomercials and the people listening to cassette tapes of motivational mumbo jumbo.

Now I'm one of them and wish I had done it sooner.

Go figure.

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I'm Back!

Probably not an even close comparison to the return of MJ. But the feeling is there. It's been a few years to say the least. I blame Covid... and my lack of motivation to put anything out on the inter-web. That said, it's a different time and I'm a lot older. Things have changed, but they haven't. I'm still trying to find that next gig. Breaking through this so-called barrier of being a company leader or executive still alludes me. And all my friends are more successful than I am. So cheers to that. I look forward to writing more. Cheers - PB

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